Whatever is, has already been, and whatever will be, already is. God repeats what has passed.

Ecclesiastes 3:15

The vast majority of us who are married are always making the statement that this must have never happened before, once we go through difficult things. We always seem to think very selfishly about ourselves, and assume that we really are the first.

First, be aware that the Book of Ecclesiastes brings forth much wisdom, some of which is found in 1:9 as it tells us that there is "nothing new under the sun." Second, realize that we are to follow a greater Commandment, and love others as we have been loved.

Take that knowledge and step outside yourself for a moment... find someone in need of lifting, and lift them up! You'd be surprised how powerful that moment can be for the both of you involved.

God bless you all!!!